What if manifesting is as easy as hearing the radio!?

Manifestation is a big topic these days, being immersed in the world of spiritual evolution we’re working to bring this process to life!

From allowing and receiving to the Law of Attraction, we’re all just wanting to live the lives we know deep down inside we should be living.

It’s pretty well known at this point that we are powerfully creating our own reality and that we can have, be or do anything we want. The tricky part is actually bringing it into reality!

It’s one things to know it conceptually and an entirely different thing experiencing it.

It’s a new territory, we’ve literally never been here before. We’re embarking on a whole new way of life, moving from a conditionally oriented physical reality to an unconditionally oriented vibrational reality.

It’s a new game with new rules. This is what fascinates me to no end! My little processor never stops contemplating the nature of reality and how we can all be more cooperative components in realizing the lives we were born to love.

Now, that doesn’t mean it’s going to be all rainbows and butterflies. It does however mean that the shit wont look so shitty, and the discomfort wont be so uncomfortable.

Loving the process of life isn’t about getting it right or wrong, it’s about effectively navigating the journey from your own unique perspective.

The reason for discomfort is a whole other incredibly valuable topic I can’t wait to blog about it, but today I want to talk about manifesting. What does it mean, where does it come from and how does it happen!?

Here’s the skinny, you are a vibrational being living in a vibrational universe. It’s science, look it up. We are 99.9999% energetic information and .0001% physical “reality”. (If you’re interested in knowing more I recommend checking our Nassim Harmein’s work in Quantum Physics).

You’re translating and emitting vibrational frequencies much like a radio tower. Information is being “invisibly” broadcast all around and to you, just like the the information a radio broadcast holds.

In order to receive that information you simply tune your radio into the frequency. The information is transmitted to you and your ears turn vibrations into sound. Viola, music!

You’ve just “manifested” a song. Whoa! Your entire life experience is based on this same principle. In order to experience something in your reality, you simply need to tune into the frequency and translate it with your senses.

Everything you see, hear, taste, touch and smell are vibrations. Your senses pick it up, your brain translates it and you experience it.

There are infinite frequencies being emitted all around you all the time. Just because you can’t hear the radio stations doesn’t mean the’re not there, it just means you’re not tuning in.

You can’t force manifestation to happen anymore than you can force the radio to play what you want. If you don’t like what your getting just change the channel, it’s so easy!

Manifesting what you want in life is as simple as listening to the radio. It’s the tuning into what you want that we’re learning to master. That’s the real juicy stuff!

Like I said, this is new territory. We’re learning new rules to a new game, and that’s exactly why I do what I do!

You are full of information. The information that’s active determines what station you’re listening to. If you have a strong belief about something, it’s active within you and you will translate that experience in all areas of your life.

It’s kind of like buying a new car, all of a sudden you start to see it everywhere! It’s not that it wasn’t there before, it just wasn’t active in your experience until now.

My work is to UHPgrade the active information you have into the active information you want. We’re constantly rewriting our story, we just aren’t usually doing it on purpose. Universal Health PrinciplesTM makes easy work of shifting into a new story.

We’ve picked up beliefs from the world around us, from others who aren’t focusing on purpose either. It’s a case of the blind leading the blind.

Depending on how long we’ve lived, it’s likely we have a jumbled mess of contradicting information active within us, attracting a jumbled mess of experiences, and because we’re so conditionally oriented we spend all of our energy on the conditions instead of the story.

We’re missing the whole point, we’re missing the purpose.

It’s okay, it’s the way it’s always been and it’s what we’re used to, but like I said the game is changing. We’re embarking on the journey within, sorting out the active information and deliberately focusing on realizing the life we were born to love.

So, the question is “How do we go about doing this!?”, well there’s honestly there are lots of different ways. That’s half the fun of this process, finding the way that you like the best. The way that allows you to realize your part in the process.

I’ve been working in this field for years, and have learned a lot from thousands of clients. It’s my mission to support others in activating the information they want while giving them the tools to navigate their lives effectively from this point on.

It’s really far more simple than we’ve chalked it up to be. It’s just uncharted territory, but no worries we all have an amazing guidance system. Plus you’ll never really get it right or get it done, so you might as well enjoy the ride.

xo – Jayme Kay Gunderson

Fears, doubts and worries. Oh my!

Here they come again, creeping their creepy way into our lives like a turd that just wont flush! So what do we do about it!?

“Face your fears!”, right!? I’ve heard that before. Or, “Don’t focus on your worries it doesn’t do any good anyways.” How about, “You create your own reality, just think positive!”

Well you know what, when you’re in the shit it can be real shitty trying to get out of it, and the last thing you want to hear is “You create your own reality!”.

Sometimes you just wanna shove that crap where your magical light don’t shine!

It’s not that those things aren’t true, and they do work. As a matter of fact I’ve said them to my very own clients.

Except the “Face your fears.” one, because my perspective on FEAR seems to be a little different than most. That’s what I want to talk to you about!

What is Fear!? Is it good, is it bad? Is it trying to tell us not to do something?

What are emotions for anyways!? Do they serve a purpose other than just mucking up our day with worries and doubts!?

They are good at that, but turns out emotions are incredibly useful when you know how to use them.

What if emotions actually have a purpose to serve you in some way, instead of just using you like a punching bag?

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Let’s get a little sciencey on this topic. If you didn’t catch it in my last blog, you are 99.9999% energetic information.E-motions are just energy in motion.

Feeling emotions is your super power of translating the information that’s actively flowing through your body. Simple right!?

Your subtle sense of touch picks up vibrational indicators inside the body and sends them to the brain to make sense of it.

Your brain translates it into different emotions, and then your get to feel shitty about it. Which us fantastic, I’m here to tell you that these heavy uncomfortable feelings aren’t bad at all!!

This brings up the topic of alignment, which is a whole other Blog post! What is alignment, and what exactly are we aligning with!?

To keep it short and sweet, when your body is in harmony with the energy moving through it you’re in alignment.When you body is out of balance with this energy you’re out of alignment.

‘Something intelligent’ decided that it might be a good idea for you to have some sort of awareness about that, maybe you should be able to feel it!

Ahhh… emotions. Those pesky little feelings area beautiful part of an intelligent design.

They give us the ability to detect in any given moment if we are in or out of alignment. You probably at least know that alignment is a good thing, I mean everyone seems to want it right?

Your body thrives in this state of being. Your cells thrive, your health and well being flow naturally here.

You have clarity and confidence, you can achieve great things! All great things that have ever been achieved were accomplished in this state of “flow” tapped into the alignment of a deeper wisdom.

Oooo, and here’s where feeling shitty becomes a lot less shitty! All great things were created from contrast.

When you deeply know what you don’t want, whether it’s in your own lives the lives of others or the world, you also know exactly what you do want.

Your emotions let you know what side of the story you’re currently tuned into.

Every time you become aware of an issue you’d like to improve, you immediately expand to hold the information of that solution.

In that moment you’re holding split focus. The physical you sees the issue as a problem and the energetic you sees the solution in the issue.

When this happens you feel the split between those two perspectives.

You have a choice in this moment, because of this lovely gift of free will, you have the choice to focus on the unwanted problem or shift your focus towards the wanted solutions.

Here’s where the really fun stuff starts! You’ve never been here before, you’ve never received the idea of this solution.

It’s new territory! Are you willing to boldly go where no one has gone before?

Your brain will try to logically figure out the situation. It’s a nice gesture, but the brain has never been here before either. It doesn’t have access to the future, it only knows what is and what once was.

So, who has been there!? Well, your heart has access to the energetic information that holds that solution.

It’s there right now. I guess that’s why they say “Follow your heart.”, but here’s something even easier to wrap your mind around.

Solutions feel different from problems. Problems feel heavy and troublesome, solutions feel like relief and joy.

If energy is full of information, and you are translating that energy, when you deliberately focus on a feeling of joy you will begin to translate the solution in the form of thoughts.

Those thoughts will fuel ideas, inspiration and the impulse to take action. Boom. Solutions are born.

When we ignore this process of solutions being born within us, we miss out on realizing the relief we all deserve.

When we allow ourselves to continually focus on the problematic issue, we are ignoring what we’ve created for ourselves.

Fear isn’t about the problem, it’s about the fact that you are depriving yourself of seeing the solution.

If we could all just stop focusing on that thing that keeps us from receiving the inspiration to grow, we’d be realizing the lives we were born to love in every moment.

Fear isn’t something to overcome, or even to face. It’s simply and indicator that the larger part of you, the 99.9999%, has already moved on and is living your desires. Your just feeling the discomfort of not keeping up.

Disallowing the realization of what you’ve already created will feel shitty every time.

Why wouldn’t it!? I’m increadibly greatful it does, how else would I know how amazing I already am?

The “hippies” always used to say, “Just lighten up and Love, man.” they probably didn’t realize how scientifically accurate that really was.

You’re doing an amazing job. Make friends with your guidance system, it really is your best friend!

xo- Jayme Kay Gunderson

The Positivity Twister Game

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Just have to say, LOVE this old twister picture!! Okay, now down to playing games!

Here’s the skinny. Our brains are programmed to think about what we don’t have, and then feel bad about not having it. It’s basically the best way to get you to buy into stuff your don’t really want. 

It’s not your fault. We aren’t typically taught to think for ourselves on purpose, and it’s definitely time for that to change!

This is a simple and easy way to retrain the brain, and it actually works. Turns out the brain is pretty easily convinced.

I defined the word “positivity” and found a whole new approach. This is by far my favorite defintition….

  • Positivity-  2. the presence rather than absence of a certain substance, condition, or feature.

Without attaching it to any good feelings or optimism, just simply the presence vs. the absence of something. Love it!

So, here are the rules: (FYI. It has nothing to do with the actual game Twister.)

  1. Set your phone to go off every 4 hours from the time your wake up until you go to sleep each night.
  2. Every time it goes off name 10 things you have, off the top of your head as fast as you can! Almost like a speed game, don’t think to hard about it.
         Here’s where it’s different…

    • Don’t worry about looking for 10 things that make you happy or feel good, or even things you appreciate. That’s not the point! Just simply 10 things you have…. name your toe nails for all I care! 
    • Keep it easy, simple, fun and fast!
  3. You can write them down if you want, sometimes I find the extra work keeps me from doing it at all. So just make a mental note, remembering them isn’t important. It’s the act of consciously choosing to focus that matters!

This is what you should notice, without even trying you’ll begin to automatically notice things you have more often than not. You’ll literally be adding to your life experience instead of taking away from it. 

Next, you’ll begin to have positive expectations and you’ll begin to notice things that are on there way to you, whether they’ve showed up yet or not. At this point, hold onto your shorts, because you’re about to make shift happen!

Most importantly, have fun and play with this. Stop being so serious all the time!

Plus, make sure to subscribe to my mailing list to be kept in on the loop of progress (along with other sweet and juicy content), and come back here frequently to tell us all in the comments below how this game is working for you and what kind of awesome shift is happening in your life!

I’m so excited to play this game with you, and can’t wait to hear about your experience!

xo- Jayme Kay

 

 

Finding simplicity in the complexity of life.

Let’s get one thing straight. My focus isn’t to save you or fix you, you don’t need it you’re not broken. I honestly don’t even care what you do with your life. As a matter of fact I think you should do absolutely anything you want, good bad or indifferent.

I don’t believe in identifying the bad things in life and then avoiding them. I know that we were born with the resources to boldly explore the contrast this life has to offer.

When you have access to your innate resources, you have the confidence and support to explore the world. When you’re lacking your resources, you feel incapable of venturing beyond your safe zone.

Fears, worries and doubts are an indication that you aren’t showing up with the full support of your resources. Half assing anything is a little scary. Not real sure how it’s gonna turn out, but let’s give it to go eh!? Just work hard and persevere!

Confidence, security and knowing are an indication that you are showing up for life, and it’s about to show up for you! You can feel that you have access to your resources. You are capable of whatever is coming. No need to avoid anything, “I’ve got this shit!”…can’t believe how perfectly that worked!

Based on years of experiential research with human physiological behavior and quantum physical understandings of reality, I’ve come to realize something.

Keep it simple stupid! There are a few things that you really should know about yourself and your reality and I’m tired of trying to explain it without really explaining it. So, I’m just going to lay it all out there!

You are a vibrational being in a vibrational universe.  If you don’t already know this, I’d be happy to elaborate some other time, but for now and arguments sake, stick with me here. Everything that is solid physical matter is also 99.9999% vibrational energy, its science (and spirit).

You have the ability to translate vibrations. Your five senses are constantly translating vibrational information into something tangible. When you hear, smell, feel, even taste and see something it is all a translation of vibrations.

When you were born, you were born with this energetic beingness. It’s all around you, encompassing you. People have given this recognition of “something bigger” lots and lots of different names.  Call it what you wanna call it, but there’s something there.

Imagine having the presence of this non-physical beingness, loving you unconditionally.

It knows the complete worthiness of you and everything you’re capable of.  It is so excited for you and your life, all the things you’ll learn and the person you’ll become. Not just because your special (even though you are) but because you are an extension of all that is. You are a part of the vibrational reality (call it what you wanna call it) experiencing itself through itself. Your perspective matters more than you know.

Children can feel this, that’s why they are so full of joy and wonder. All they want to do is play and explore and experience everything they come across. They feel safe, secure and supported.

Then they begin to grow up, and start to experience contrast. They start to become more, and expand. They don’t fully understand their emotions, and their parents don’t either so they tell them to behave themselves and knock it off. Be quite, and grow up, stop being such a child! You know, something along those lines.

Your parents lovingly teach you to follow them, which usually tends to contradict what you want to do. What your guidance is telling you. If you don’t there’s likely a price to pay. So you learn to not listen to yourself. You put yourself away so you can fit in and be accepted into society.

Then you start to feel lonely, and sad, left out, unloved and unworthy. Like you’re not good enough, or not supported. Not because of the conditions in your life, like we are led to believe, but because you put yourself away. You lost the biggest part of you.

Unfortunately your parents might even, unknowingly, make it worse by rewarding your good behavior and punishing the bad. You start to learn that you’re loved most when you do what other people want you to, and unloved when you don’t.

This also teaches you to treat others badly when they don’t behave the way you want them to.  It’s a pretty miserable cycle.

You spend the following years trying really hard to become the person you’re supposed to be so that you can find that feeling of worthiness, acceptance and love again! You behave, and dress and eat the way you should.

Hoping that finally when you achieve that ideal thing, you’ll feel the satisfaction your heart is so desperately longing for. Not realizing that what you are really searching for is the presence of you, all of you.

Every day that you live life, you experience contrast. You know what you don’t want, and without even asking for it, you know what you do want. In that moment something happens. Something that you have no control over, it happens so naturally you hardly even notice it. You actually expand vibrationally to include more about you than you had before.

When you’re mean, you want to be nicer. You expand to include that version of you. When you don’t have enough of something, you want more of it. You expand to include that version of you. This happens all day every day without you even doing anything except living, and discerning what you prefer.

This is where your guidance system comes in.

Everything in your body is a vibrational indicator of how much of your expansion you’re allowing yourself to realize in this moment.

You obviously have a physical body, but you also have a mental body, an emotional body and even an environmental body. Every single thing that you translate in your environment is a direct reflection of how much of you is showing up right now.

Your thoughts are a subtle translation of hearing. You don’t make thoughts, you receive them. They are a result of your relationship to yourself.  If you are allowing You to show up fully in this moment, you receive positive thoughts. If you’re not, you receive negative thoughts.

If you thoughts are representative of who you have become they feel light and inspiring. If they are representative of the old version of you they fell heavy, fearful and bad.  Your physical body and your environment are the same.

If you have tension, pain and dis-ease you’re resisting you, if you feel healthy and at ease you’re allowing all of you. If you are running into shitty people, you are showing up a shitty version of yourself. If you run into amazing people you are showing up an amazing version of yourself.

This is true always, and it’s a fantastic thing to have! Everything you translate is a reflection of you.

That’s why you shouldn’t avoid the negative discomfort as if it’s a bad thing. It’s not bad, it’s your best friend!

It’s trying to tell you that you aren’t receiving all that you are right now. It’s an indicator to pay very close attention to. Use it for your benefit, to deliberately do something about how you’re showing up, instead of using it as an excuse to settle for less than who you really are.

If you want your world to show up differently for you, you have to show up for it.

And for crying out loud, stop blaming it on anything else! Take your power back, and start being a responsible cooperative component in your own damn life.

This is what I mean by, embrace your potential! Realize what you’re made of, what you’ve done and what you’re doing. This is why I don’t care what you do with your life, just as long as you know that you’re the one doing it. It’s not for me to say.

I’m pretty sure that when you realize your role in all of this, you’ll just naturally stop creating your own damn misery and begin to cash in on the benefit of showing up.

So how do you do this, how do you “show up”. Well first you have to learn how to use your guidance system again. Figure out when you are showing up, and when you’re not. It also helps to sort out some of the crap you’ve collected that’s not representing who you’ve become.  Then you learn to tell the difference between contraction and expansion.

Every time you detect contraction, you know what it means. It means, I’m not showing up fully in this moment, how can I show up more fully? The opposite of contraction is expansion. So all I need to do is expand. How do I expand? Well, my lungs expand. What does expansion feel like? It feel lighter, it feels better. How can I feel lighter, how can I feel better? I can dance, I can play, I can laugh. It’s easy!

Stop letting the world determine how you are going to show up, and start showing up in spite of it.

Start showing up on purpose, and watch the world knock your socks right off!

I want you to live your own damn life, but on purpose, not by default. I want you to exercise your free will to focus productively in accordance with who you are, not just on any old thing they throw in your face.

I’ve always said, if you can take away a person’s ability to feel and bombard them with fear you can make them do anything. That’s how you get them to blindly follow each other wherever you point, because they no longer have the ability to see for themselves. It’s time to take off the blind fold and start living your life.

I promise there is a very simple process to showing up for you, and I would absolutely love to facilitate you in discovering it for yourself.  If this sounds at all intriguing to you, and you are ready to take off the blindfold.

I invite you to stop blindly following other people’s paths and start showing up for you, I invite you to join me in rediscovering who you really are.

Thank you so much for being here, I appreciate you more than you know.

Xo- Jayme

Trust yourself and stop pissin’ on your dreams!

Welcome to Monday’s Mission, where it’s best to just let inspiration flow.

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You’re the only one that can stand in your way, and you’re the only one who can get out of your own way!

So how do you know where you stand in relationship to where you wanna stand, are you even still standing!? Maybe you should sit down.

Every day you live life you experience contrast. The contrast gives you the opportunity to know more clearly what you don’t want and what you do want.

When you know this, you expand to include a broader perspective of both the wanted and unwanted. You become more because of it, wiser, stronger, smarter, etc…

Keeping up with that expanded perception allows you to cash in on the results. When you don’t keep up, you get to cash in on settling for less than who you really are.

If your beliefs on the inside don’t match your desires you’re just pissing on your own dreams wether you know it or not.

All the action you take from a piss poor perspective will wear you down and be incredibly frustrating!

Everything in our bodies is a feedback result of the relationship to who you really are. If you’re allowing the fullness of You the joy is almost overwhelming. If you’re only allowing a small part of you, its pretty lonely and miserable.

Unfortunately one of the most prevalant things I see is that people are either knowingly or unkowingly harboring some level of discomfort, but just keep shining it up with a smile in order to cope with “the way things are”.

The only reason things seem that way is because you wont allow yourself to realize what has actually become.

No matter how much you shine up a turd, it’s still a turd on the inside.

I really don’t care how you live your life. That’s the beauty of it being yours! I do think you might wanna know what you’re doing though. Once you realize what you’ve done and what you’re capable of doing, you might have a different approach to life.

Today’s #modaysmission BodyTalk Link is focused on clearing out some confusion around who you really are and allowing you to feel safe enough to realize it.

We started with bringing in the Lymph Nodes of the body in processing out all the junk that isn’t jiving with the new and improved you, and is slowing up the process.

Because your mind and body are constantly exchanging information, bringing clarity through the lymphatic nodes will allow for new ideas and inspiration.

This improved function is joining up with balancing the stress thresholds within the body, allowing for the fight or flight system to find balance with rest and digest. 

As well as connecting to the adrenal glands, calming the overactive fear and protect responses. Allowing for a stronger sense of willpower in realizing your desires.

Because we’ve been taught that anything uncomfortable is bad. Our brains have learned how to protect us from this danger. The only problem is that this discomfort is the very thing that’s trying to save us.

Our symptoms aren’t so bad, they are our best friends. They let us know that a greater potential of us is waiting, and gently calling us forward. 

Follow me on Instagram @wholisticlifeworks as we dive deeper into trusting your own guidance and how to realize your potential.

Also please let me know what you think, and how you feel after this little session.

Xo- Jayme

The harder you try, the harder it is.

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With an amplified wave of self improvement sweeping the airwaves, the drive to become a bigger better version of yourself is strong.

We are working on ourselves like a mother trucker! All kinds of new exciting processes to get healthier and connect with your inner self are sgowing up in ways well, that we’re pretty much making up as we go!

It’s exciting times. Who wouldn’t want to better themselves, to become the greatest potential they can possibly be, and then some! More and more people seem to find themselves on a quest for inner greatness, at some degree.

Whether it’s staying healthy and active enough to enjoy the later years in life, or if it’s to conquer the world! We all have desires. I absolutely love seeing the “aha” moments when people realize those desires. It’s one of the best damn reasons I do what I do.

So here’s the thing that I’ve witnessed. In this quest to better oneself, there seems to be a varying degree of struggle involved. My clients will say things like, “I’m working on it.” or “I’m trying, but it’s hard.”

It’s ironic how the harder you try the harder it is.

Think about this. The version of you that you are right now, feels and behaves a certain way. While the version of you you’d like to become, feels and behaves a different way.

Imagine the current version of you for a moment. What do they do, what do they say, how do they act? Now, imagine the improved version of you. What does that version do or say? How does that person interact with others? You can feel the difference, can’t you?

You don’t even really have to know the details of how to be that version. How could you, you’ve never been there before!? You just have to know the direction your headed, and trust your innate intelligence to coordinate the resourcses to get you there.

When you have an active image of yourself in your mind, your body coordinates the resources within you to produce the results of that image. You’ve already felt the effects of that, just from imagining that version.

Your body is constantly responding to the focus of your mind.

When your minds image is of version less that what you really want, and you take action from that perspective, you only have the resources that support that version. The work is always harder with limited resources, and the struggle is real.

When you have an active image of the improved version of yourself, now you have access to the resources that support that version. Now your inspired to be that version, through your body. You literally begin to recieve different thoughts,  which leads to different actions, which leads to a new you!

Seriously, that’s some exciting sh*t right there! There is all kinds of evidence (that I don’t have references for, but that you can google) that support the evidence behind the powerful influence of observation. It’s science.

So, how are you supposed to act like you already are a version that you’re obviously not right now?

Well, that’s something you get to figure out, a way for you to line up with that version. Usually the easiest way is by how it feels. You can imagine what the improved version of you feels like right!? Feels fantastic, feels like relief, just plain feels better!

You can create and maintain the feeling of that version, without it even being here yet, and your body will begin to coordinate the resources to shift you in that direction. It may sound crazy, but it’s absolutely true. That’s the power of the Law of Attraction at it’s best!

The bonus here is that your work in this whole process is actually pretty easy. When you access the leverage of your deliverate focus, you really don’t have to know the deep dark inner workings of your body and mind, or how your goindg to become a new version.

Honestly it’s ALOT of information, that you will probably never really understand anyways. I don’t think we’re meant to.

We have an innate intelligence fot that,  it’s governing the inner workings of our bodies at a cellular level. It’s pretty capable of things and it’s got this! It is however subject to the environment we choose to focus on, being that we have free will and all.

All you have to know is what version are you showing up as today? You will always know by the way it feels. There are basically two feelings to pay attention to, feeling better and feeling worse. Call ’em what you wanna call ’em, but you have a say in which way it goes.

You are literally expanding into a version of yourself you’ve never been before. Your lungs can help you out here every time, they are the embodiment of expansion. As a matter of fact they kind of specialize in it, and would really love to show you what they can do!

Freedom Friday Follow Through: Pay attention to how you feel, and make it your deliberate intent to line up with feeling like the version you prefer.

It’s your superhuman sense to detect which version of you you’re showing up as the most.

If your feeling bad and heavy about the process, take it easy and lighten up. Your not feeling it yet. Feeling good about the process!? Do work, the resources are a pleanty!

All you have to know is that it feels better. From no matter where your standing, you always have the choice to shift focus and feel better.

Allow yourself to gain a new perspective from lightening up a bit. Take some exceptionally expansive deep breaths, dance around, sing at the top of your lungs, go for a walk, take a nap….something!

Line up with what you want and then act. Feel it inside of you first. Then, and only then will you have the leverage to change your life for good.

Tell me in the comments below, do you usually struggle with change or is it easy?

Do you feel overwhelmed, and sometimes even worse by trying to be a better person!?

We’ve all been there, or are there right now!

Join me for a brand new Monday’s Mission! I will be offering a very special Matrix LifeWorks Session to support you in more easily moving in the direction of your desired self!

Follow my Blog & Instagran or even Facebook below, to keep up with all the juicy details!

Xo – Jayme

 

You’re right…and I am also right!

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In a world completely jam packed with diversity in options and opinions, it’s almost impossible to take someone else’s word on what the right way is. It’s one of the beautiful paradoxes this life has to offer.

Clearly there has to be some sort of right way. We can’t just allow people to do awful things to each other! Of course not, but it’s not really for you to decide or control the actions of other people. As a matter of fact, it is scientifically impossible.

I’m sure you’ve invested some time trying to make someone do something, or behave some way, because it would be better for everyone if they did, right? How’d that work out for you?

The more we push against what we don’t want, the stronger it gets. We have so many wars raging against the unwanted dangers of the world, and for some reason they just seem to be getting stronger and more prevalent. Maybe there’s a reason for this.

You’ve probably heard of the Law of Attraction by now. In today’s New Age wave, these concepts are everywhere. I personally appreciate the very real scientific basis of spirituality, and the Law of Attraction.

Simply put, The Law of Attraction says; like vibrations attract like vibrations. Just like the Law of Gravity says; what goes up must come down. Have you ever thrown something up in the air, just to see if the Law of Gravity was going to be consistent today. Maybe it will float away this time? Probably not.

It’s interesting to note how little we understand The Law of Attraction. Whether you think about it or not it’s still working on your behalf, just like The Law of Gravity is holding you to this earth. Kind of nice to know right? Now if only we could figure out how use it to our advantage more often than not!

We’ve learned to work with the Law of Gravity, like when you have to fasten stuff to walls in order for it to stay. Sounds simple, but that is the Law of Gravity for you!

So, how do we work with The Law of attraction and more importantly, what does this have to do with everyone being right!?

Well, remember how the Law of Attraction talks about vibrations? This is a very important piece in understanding right and wrong. It’s is scientifically understood that our physical bodies and the world around us is constructed of 99.9999% space.

This means that you are just full of it! Full of vibrating energies, you can feel them in your emotions. When you get chills, when your scared, when your blood is pumping. That’s all vibrations you’re detecting through your senses. Pretty awesome right!?

That being said, right and wrong is a matter of personal preference. There is absolutely no cut and dry, black and white list of right and wrong. Everyone is personally oriented to their own perceptions for a very important reason.

We didn’t come her to figure out the one right way and then make everyone else live that way to. There really wouldn’t be that many of us here for such a miserable journey of conformity. We came to sort through the contrast and individually and selfishly decide what we prefer for ourselves and for the world at large.

No one else can see the world through your eyes, no one else knows the things you know, and no one else can ask for the things you desire. This world needs your unique preference!

You know what’s right for you because you can feel it, and if you can’t I highly recommend you remember how. This is the most important gift you were born with. The ability to guide yourself through life. It is something that we are lovingly taught away from as small children, for our own good of course.

Our parents and authority figures were always there to rigidly inform us of the right way to do things, the only problem is that it’s not MY right way that’s YOUR right way. When we shut down our own guidance, in order to behave accordingly we create a very uncomfortable split in ourselves.

We forget who we are, and what we want. We are forced to seek guidance in all the wrong places, and because everyone can not help but to be selfishly oriented, we are so often disappointed in the results.

When you’re told that this behavior is right but every bit of your guidance is screaming something else, you have two choices. You can either ignore yourself and suppress your emotions, or embrace yourself and follow your guidance. 

This is where the beautiful paradox jumps in. The only thing that stops you from following your own guidance is the fear of doing it wrong, and being judged for your failure.

So what really is right and wrong? Is it finding the people who have already figured it all out, and doing what they do? Or is it vibrational recognition that you are following your own way, the way that only you can see.

Is right something that someone else approves of, or is something that you approve of? Is it something you “should” do, or is something you are inspired to do? The only time we feel the need to convince someone else that our way is right, is when we doubt it ourselves. You aren’t really trying to convince anyone but you.

Wrong behavior doesn’t arise out of not being properly taught the difference between right and wrong, it arises out of being torn from your own guidance system. 

People systematically turn to destructive behavior when they are without themselves. It is in my opinion the root of all dis-ease. If you’re taught not to trust yourself, and instead rely on others for your guidance you are bound to live a life of hard work, sacrifice, discomfort and struggle.

Not because life is hard and there is so much wrong in the world, but because you can’t clearly feel all of the righteousness within you. When you’re stripped from yourself, the pain and discomfort can often be too much to bear. You’ll turn to anything to find relief from that misery.

All of the things that we punish and condemn people for in their wrongness, is all just a desperate attempt to feel the righteousness they lost track of so long ago. No one would ever behave so badly if they did not hurt so much inside. They don’t know what else to do, they’ve lost sight of what is right. Not because they don’t know the difference, but because they can’t feel it anymore.

The conditions of right and wrong are no longer important, it’s the resonance of right and wrong that we need to find our way back to. 

Honor this in others. You have no idea where they are in relationship to what they want, and you have no idea how they are going to get there. Their right way may look nothing like your right way, and if you do it for them all the time they will never realize the full potential of who they really are.

They will always need someone else to fill the void they have lost. 

Set your loved ones free, set yourself free. We are all in this together, not to conform to the right way but to individually find our own ways.

Stop shoulding on the world around you, and think about yourself! The only thing you have control over in this world is your one free will to focus. Invest your control wisely, ease up on the world around you and watch as the Law of Attraction responds accordingly.

With every blog we’re going to be delving deeper into realizing how things actually work around here, and becoming a more deliberate component in creating the life we want. You already have everything you need, I promise.

Until then, lighten up buttercup! Pay attention to how much you should on your world, and how much your world is shoulding on you. You might just take a different approach all by yourself.

Let me know in the comments if you are struggling with people in your environment, or if you yourself are struggling with self destructive habits you could just kick to the curb, and do things the right way! We’ve all got them, no need for juicy details, just a general acknowledgement will do.

Can’t wait for next week, see you there!

xo, Jayme